Armando's
Love Song
By
Maria Bardino
Armando
went back to school after his divorce in the island of Puerto Rico. Newly
divorced, this father of four was not looking forward to getting married
again. He was having lots of fun, learning, which is something he loves
to do, and meeting LOTS OF GIRLS.
He
was also popular with the opposite sex. And he did enjoy being around women
... even if just in casual flirtations.
In
school, Armando met a young woman whom he introduced to this practice.
She was most receptive, and became an active member.
Armando
found that he kept bumping into her in the most unexpected places, and
certainly did enjoy their casual friendship. He felt very comfortable around
her. She was a good friend.
Shortly
before the big SGI movement in New York, Armando found himself in a jewelry
store. He thought it might be nice to buy himself a nice gold ring with
some diamonds on it. Instead, he inexplicably was drawn into purchasing
a set of wedding rings for a woman. After making that large purchase, Armando
shrugged his shoulders and put the box inside his sports jacket ... and
actually forgot about it.
He
was most surprised to find that the girl he had introduced to this practice
ended up going on this trip to New York at the last minute. They shared
some very happy moments during this movement as friends.
A short
while after the New York trip, the girl unexpectedly dropped by his apartment.
He was ironing, and she said, "You know, I would really enjoy ironing your
shirt." It was then Armando thought, "I could really fall in love with
this girl."
So
he asked her to meet him during a coffee break at the university. Then
he asked her for lunch (on that same day). Then for dinner (ditto). It
was on that that day that they briefly shared their first kiss.
A big
Kosen Rufu Gongyo Meeting was coming up. Upon the meeting's close, announcements
were asked to be made. Armando, in a split second, felt inside his sports
jacket and ran up to the podium.
"Yes,
I have an announcement to make. Lucilda, I love you and want to marry you.
If you marry me, I will make you the happiest woman in the world."
It
was then that an older Japanese Woman's Division leader jumped up and shouted
"YES!!!" as Lucilda cried uncontrollably.
She
was the leader who had told Lucilda to chant three hours a day to marry
Armando. She was the leader on whose shoulder Lucilda had cried uncontrollably.
That leader had told Lucilda, "If he does not show any affection by the
end of six months, then you move on."
The
six months were up.
Armando's
fortunes have gone through several ups and downs. Lucilda has been with
him all along, and supported the family when Armando went back to school.
Even though Lucilda has not practiced actively in a while, Armando asserts
that she is a living Buddha ... it's in her behavior.
Fourteen
years later, Armando is known as a model husband who adores his wife.
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