Friends
Are Forever
By Karen Fitzpatrick
I received
a phone call at 11:00 PM last night from a person I introduced to Buddhism
in California twelve years ago — back in the ole NSA days.
I distinctly
recall when I first told him about Nam Myoho-renge-kyo. It was about midnight,
after one of those "too late meetings." I'd stopped by a liquor store where
George was working a night job and bought a Reese's peanut butter cup.
When I went to pay for it, I saw him behind the counter, and he looked
so sad that I had to tell him about Nam Myoho-renge-kyo.
About a month
after George had received Gohonzon, he told me that he'd taken that night
job in the liquor store in hopes that someone would come in, rob him, and
shoot him. A fairly safe bet in that neighborhood!
He practiced
and managed to live through several accidents he caused by his drunkenness.
I swear he had alcohol running in his veins! He practiced in the Young
Men's Division for several years.
George had alcohol
seizures as he sat beside me chanting twice. We all knew his alcoholism
was serious. Then he just disappeared!
He'd stopped
practicing, has become a millionaire, is still addicted, married a doctor
with money, and made good investments. He got my number by calling the
phone numbers he'd hung onto from years past. He is AGAIN beginning to
work the 12 steps and wanted to do his "amends."
George's call
to me included things like sincere apologies for lots of things: inappropriate
behavior and words, lies, and stealing. But he was sincere when he thanked
me for our friendship.
He said, "Karen,
we never had sex — but I could talk with you about anything. And I miss
that." When he told me to please send him a dollar amount so he could repay
me, I told him that the best thing he could do to make amends with us was
to re-enshrine his Gohonzon, and begin to chant again, and tell other people
about Nam Myoho-renge-kyo.
I gave him the
phone number of a leader he knows in his area so he could locate the SGI
easily. He said, "OK, Karen, I'll do it."
This was my
first opportunity to see up close someone who had much financial fortune,
but was miserable. George called me because he's now 40, and several of
his friends had just died. One died of alcohol poisoning, one from shooting
his head off, and another from a heroin overdose.
This was a wonderful
wake-up call about how great our practice is. Financial fortune?! Pfah!
I have a wealth of friends, something he lacked. Financial fortune can
come and go. Friends are forever.
Karen
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