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Changing
My Future from Within
By
Stephen Shay Elliot
My abuse of controlled substances, which began with IV drug use at the age of 14, has withstood long stays in prison and the destruction of every relationship I have ever had. Until June 2000, I had skirted the laws against illegal drug use and managed to incur only parole violations after serving a five-year sentence. Last year, the law finally caught up with me. It couldn't have happened at a worse time. My girlfriend, Julie, our 1 month-old son, Ryan, and I were caught in a raid. Julie and I were arrested and Ryan was shuttled off to family members. Julie was facing seven years in jail, and I was told that I was facing life in prison. Our son had lost both of his parents in the course of an hour. I had always thought that my drug addiction was not anyone's problem but my own. I resented the idea that when I do drugs I was victimizing those closest to me. I now saw the truth of it. Thoughts of suicide, depression, and self-loathing filled my days after my arrest. The worst part was the thought of never being able to hold my beautiful son again, and that I had ruined Julie's life. The first week of my incarceration, my father visited me in jail. He has practiced Buddhism for 30 years, which is as long as I have been alive. Even though he has always encouraged me to practice, I have always declined. He let me know, in no uncertain terms, that if I started to practice that I would not have to spend my life in prison. "Chanting is not just an intellectual exercise," he said. "Just chant and you will receive results." I followed my father's advice and started practicing. I chanted, studied and even shared this practice with some of the other inmates. I got the best criminal defense lawyer in the courthouse free of charge. I was able to keep my head relatively straight. My lawyer convinced the district attorney that a probationary report was in order. This would be my one and only chance to avoid a 25-year sentence. My life would be reviewed and an interview would be conducted. As I chanted about this situation, I noticed a change. My concern was not only for a successful interview, but for Julie and my son. All of our futures were intertwined. The only way that I could change this situation was through sincere prayer. My
lawyer told me that I should be completely open and honest during the interview.
Being up front with authority figures was not something that I was used
to doing. I trusted my lawyer and decided to give it a shot. All of my
arrogance had gotten me
The interview could not have gone better. I was open and honest. The most lenient result I felt I could hope for was an eight-year sentence, but, at the end of the interview, I was given time served and released. Julie was sentenced to a rehabilitation facility with our son. A positive future was unfolding in front of me. I found out later that my mother stayed home all day, for days on end, chanting for her grandson, her future daughter-in-law, and me. I am now clean and sober and with a steady job. Julie is with Ryan. We are working on repairing our relationship. This victory was in a large part to a change within, something that this practice allowed me to do. I have
no deep philosophical understanding of how or why Nam Myoho-renge-kyo helped
me to reclaim my life. I simply know that it did.
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